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Office Hours:

Mon & Tues:  9am-1pm 
Wed: 1pm - 5pm

Thurs & Fri:  10am - 2pm

Hours subject to change without notice. 
We encourage you to call first without an appointment.

B'nai Mitzvah

Bar/Bat Mitzvah means “son/daughter of the commandment”. It is the moment when a young person takes on the commitments, privileges and obligations of responsible Jewish living.

As a small congregation, we are able to make each child’s Bar and Bat Mitzvah an occasion of meaning, emphasizing the Jewish values of learning (Torah), worship (avodah) and deeds of kindness (gemilut chasadim). We believe that B’nai Mitzvah is an important event for the entire family and we welcome all kinds of families to take this important journey with their children, including interfaith families, single parent families, families with gay/lesbian parents.

We also believe that the each class of young people who become Bar/Bat Mitzvah form their own community. We strongly encourage each child to invite the entire religious school class to the celebration. We have found that the bonds formed through this process encourage the continuation of learning through our post-b’nai mitzvah confirmation program and youth group, enhancing the ongoing Jewish life and involvement of our teenagers.

Our students do a number of things in preparation for becoming Bar/Bat Mitzvah – all of which prepare them for a future life of Jewish involvement and commitment.

Learning

Our students are required to attend Religious School for at least two full years in advance of becoming Bar/Bat Mitzvah. This helps them to have the foundation of knowledge that is necessary, and enables them to feel a part of the community.

Students and parents participate in four family learning programs over the course of the year of Bar/Bat Mitzva. These learning programs deal with topics such as the meaning of Bar/Bat Mitzvah, understanding the prayers, the importance of tallit and kippah and the Jewish way to celebrate.

Nine months in advance of the Bar/Bat Mitzvah, each student begins to study individually with our B’nai Mitzvah tutor, Keren Vergon. Our students chant Torah and either read or chant Haftarah, along with leading the Shabbat service and delivering a d’var torah (an explanation of the Torah portion). We strive to teach them not simply the words they will need to say at the Bar/Bat Mitzvah service, but life long Jewish skills.

Each Bar/Bat Mitzvah service is not the same. Our goal is to have each student learn what he or she is maximally capable to learn. As students are different, so too the material they learn will be different. We believe that every child is capable of becoming Bar/Bat Mitzvah, including children with disabilities and special needs.

 

 

Adult B’nai Mitzvah

Interested in Bar or Bat Mitzvah and never had a chance as a 13 year old? 


Be in touch with Rabbi Torop –This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. - and indicate your interest in beginning this two-year program. 

Information about initial meeting TBD

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December 15th  - Simcha Shabbat Service 7:00PM

December 16th - Bible & Bagels 10:00AM

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